
Stage 1 · The first 30 days
Shock and stillness
The world goes quiet and loud at the same time. Don't make big decisions. Accept help. Let routines hold you.
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No two journeys look alike. These stages are a map, not a schedule. Move through them at your own pace, and circle back as often as you need.

Stage 1 · The first 30 days
The world goes quiet and loud at the same time. Don't make big decisions. Accept help. Let routines hold you.
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Stage 2 · Months 1–6
Paperwork, finances, and the practical weight of life. Take it in small, kind portions. We have checklists when you're ready.
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Stage 3 · Months 6–18
Small joys return — and so does the ache. Both are welcome. Begin noticing what gives you energy.
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Stage 4 · Beyond a year
You are not the woman you were, and that is not a betrayal. You are becoming someone new — gently, on your own time.
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